Advntages of pilloW

For sleeping... ?


For pilow fight ..?


Then ????

For hiding ur cell while texting late at niGht ... :p ;)

Pramod Bhalerao

Today I

Today I smiled, and all at once things didn't look so bad.
Today I shared with someone else, a bit of hope I had.
Today I sang a little song, and felt my heart grow light,
And walked a happy little mile, with not a cloud in sight.
Today I worked with what I had and longed for nothing more,
And what had seemed like only weeds, were flowers at my door.
Today I loved a little more and complained a little less,
And in the giving of myself, I forgot my weariness. 

Pramod Bhalerao

A - Z of Quotes

Enjoy this collection of inspirational words of wisdom in the form of quotes and sayings.I hope the words motivate and inspire you.

A—"Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it." 
B— "Believing in yourself is not for you; it's for every person who has touched your life in a significant way and for every person your life will touch the same way five minutes from now, or five centuries from now."
C—”Change is as inexorable as time, yet nothing meets with more resistance." 
D—"Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the action stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living." 
E—"Enthusiasm releases the drive to carry you over obstacles and adds significance to all you do." 
F—"Focused will is incredible. If you have a dream and you don't give up no matter what obstacles come up, then life's problems will fall away and you will get what you want. It happens. It works."
G—"Goals are like a map. They help us determine where we want to end up, and give us personal direction on which to focus our energy." 
H—"Happiness depends upon ourselves." 
I—"Ideas won’t keep; something must be done about them." 
J—”Joy is not in things; it is in us.”
K—“Knowledge is of two kinds. We know a subject ourselves, or we know where we can find information on it.” 
L—"Laughter is a tranquilizer with no side effects." 
M—"Motivation is like food for the brain. You cannot get enough in one sitting. It needs continual and regular top ups." 
N—"Nature does nothing uselessly." 
O—"Opportunity dances with those who are ready on the dance floor." 
P—"Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish." 
Q—"Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers." 
R—"Results! Why, man I have gotten a lot of results. I know several thousand things that won’t work." 
S—"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." 
T—"Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend." 
U—"Use your unique abilities to shake the world." 
V—"Victory belongs to the most persevering."
W—"Wisdom is the daughter of experience." 
X—"X-ray your life, are you where you want to be, if not set your goals, take action." 
Y—"Youth teaches, age puts what we have learned into practice, teaching us wisdom." 
Z—"Zone into your comfort zone, and, then zone into where you want to be. Be all that you can be." 

Pramod Bhalerao

May I know the time please ??

Young Man: Sir, may I know the time, please? Old Man: Certainly not.

Young Man: Sir, but why? What are you going to loose,if you tell me the time?

Old Man: Yes, I may loose something if I tell you the time.

Young Man: But Sir, can you tell me how?

Old Man : See, if I tell you the time you will definitely thank me and may be tomorrow again you will ask me the time.

Young Man: Quite possible.

Old Man: May be we meet two three times more and you will ask my name and address.

Young Man: Quite possible.

Old Man: One day you may come to my house saying you were just passing by and came in to wish me.

Then as a courtsey, I will offer you a cup of tea.

After my courteous approach you will try to come again.This time you will appreciate tea and ask who has made it.?

Young Man: Possible

Old Man: Then I will tell you that my daughter has and I will then have to introduce my young and pretty daughter to you and you will admire my daughter.

Young Man: Smiles. ;)

Old Man: Now onwards you will try to meet my daughter again and again. You will offer her to go out for a movie together and a date with you.

Young Man: Smiles

Old Man: My daughter may start liking you and start waiting for you. After meeting regularly you will fall in love with her and propose her for marriage.

Young Man: Smiles

Old Man: One day both of you will come to me and tell me about your love and ask for my permission.

Young Man: Oh Yes! And smiles

Old Man: (Angrily) Young man, I will never marry my daughter to a person like you who does not even own a watch. 

Pramod Bhalerao

How to catch a Lion?

Newton 's Method:Let, the lion catch you.
For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
Implies you caught lion.

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 Einstein Method:Run in the direction opposite to that of the lion.
Due to higher relative velocity, the lion will also run faster and will get tired soon.
Now you can trap it easily.

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Software Engineer Method:
Catch a cat and claim that your testing has proven that its a Lion.
If anyone comes back with issues tell that you will upgrade it to Lion.

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Indian Police Method:Catch any animal and interrogate it & torture it to accept that its a lion .

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Rajnikanth Method :Keep warning the lion that u may come and attack anytime.
The lion will live in fear and die soon in fear itself.

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Jayalalitha Method:Send Police commissioner Muthukaruppan around 2AM and kill it, while it's sleeping ! 

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Manirathnam Method (director):Make sure the lion does not get sun light and put the lion in a dark room with a single candle lighted.
Keep murmuring something in its ears.
The lion will be highly irritated and commit suicide.

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 Karan Johar Method (director):Send a lioness into the forest.
Our lion and lioness fall in love with each other.
Send another lioness in to the forest, followed by another lion.
First lion loves the first lioness and the second lion loves the 2nd lioness.
But 2nd lioness loves both lions.
Now send another lioness (third) into the forest.
You don't understand right... it after 15 yrs, then also u wont!

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 Yash Chopra method (director):Take the lion to Australia or US.. and kill it in a good scenic location. 

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Govinda method:Continuously dance before the lion for 5 or 6 days. The Lion will drop dead just watching!

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 Menaka Gandhi method:Save the lion from a danger and feed him with some vegetables continuously. 

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 George bush method:Link the lion with Osama bin laden and shoot him!!!

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 Ravi Shastri method:Ask the lion to bowl at u.
U bat for 200 balls and score 1 run
Lion tired and surrenders

Pramod Bhalerao

Great Reading...!!

just wrote these beautiful words. Must read and try to understand the deep meaning of it. They are like the ten commandments to follow in life all the time.

1] Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout.

2] So why a Car's WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, Look Ahead and Move on.

3] Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.
4] All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either.

5] Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond! If you get a Diamond, don't forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!

6] Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, GOD smiles from above and says, "Relax, sweetheart, it's just a bend, not the end!

7] When GOD solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities; when GOD doesn't solve your problems HE has faith in your abilities.

8] A blind person asked St. Anthony: "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?" He replied: "Yes, losing your vision!"

9] When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.

10] WORRYING does not take away tomorrow's TROUBLES, it takes away today's PEACE.

If you really enjoy this, please pass to others. It may brighten someone's day... 

Pramod Bhalerao


I gazed at the sky thinking about what we had and what could have been. To believe we were going to last forever was impossible to think, but I did. Now I am left with a broken heart. Even though what we had wasn't real, the pain and heartbreak you put me through was completely real. But even after what you did to me, every morning when I awake I ask myself, will my heart burn with desire for your love? Will I die if I don't feel your touch? Will my lips burn if I don't feel your lips touch mine? Because my heart's one desire was and still is your love.

Pramod Bhalerao

Funny..... Sprite with IT Taste ...NICE

Imagine ur self in a  Ad

Your Colleague : Hey!! Kya yahan baitha mail forward karta rahta hai yaar !!
  Naye projects seekh.....
  Fatafat Go Live kara......
  Overtime kar after 9:00 PM... like me....!
  Do something gooood man !!

You   : Achha! To usse Kya hoga ..

Your Colleague : Impression!! ! Appraisal !!!
Har appraisal main tu No 1!
Hike in salary !! Extra Stocks for the company!!

You : Phir kya hoga…

Your Colleague : Manager ban jaayega..Phir Sr Manager !!!
 Phir AVP!! One day U will be a
 VP of the Company man !!

You : Acchha to phir kya hoga…

Your Colleague : Abe phir tu aish karega! Koi kaam nahin karna padega !
 Araam se office aayega aur MAIL check karega.

You  : To ab main kya kar raha hoon????

"Dikhawe pe na jao, apni akal lagao. Hard Work hai waste, trust only copy-paste " 

Pramod Bhalerao


  • No point using limited life to chase unlimited money.

  • No point earning so much money you cannot live to spend it.

  • Money is not yours until you spend it.

  • When you are young, you use your health to chase your wealth;when you are old, you use your wealth to buy back your health. Difference is that, it is too late.

  • How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how little he needs.

  • No point working so hard to provide for the people you have no time to spend with.

Remember this -- We come to this world with nothing, we leave this world with nothing!

Pramod Bhalerao

Suicide note written "me"

Suicide note written "me"
Whn "she left me"

The only way for me

To be with U
is in my drmz.
For Your luv
I m sleeping forever...

Pramod Bhalerao


when u look at me
i feel i m fine

when u call me
i feel i m good
when u ask me
i feel i m intelligent
when u see me
i feel i m beautiful

when u give me smile
i feel i m happy

when u touch me
i feel i m alive
when u talk with me
i feel i m someone Special
and finally when u r not with me
i feel i m NOTHING! 

Pramod Bhalerao



This story changed my life
and I thought maybe it could change others too, so I'm sharing it with
This story was told to me by my close frd, whom it
happened to.
She was really upset because
she hadn't see or spoken to her best friend Jim in a couple of weeks.
Finally he show up at her
door and commands her to get dressed and go riding with him.
So she finally does
As they were riding , they
passed a garden full of flowers
Jim says "Do you see those
flowers ?
"Yes ,"she says.
"Do you think that when
someone steps on those flowers that they lie there and feel sorry for
themselves ?
Jim Asks.
"No , they immediately start
to mend their wounds
so they can heal , and grow
strong and healthy"
They ride a little further
and Jim points up in a tree , 'You see those squirrels up there ?
Do you think that when
people shoot at them they go hide forever "?
"No 'she says.
About that time the ocean
cames into sight.
Jin Says "You see that ocean
out there ?
Do you think that when
there's a hurricane out there that the ocean doesn't go back out
because it's
afraid to face the storm ?
No she says.
"Then, why have you stopped
living because you have been hurt?
That story really hit me
like a ton of bricks
The worst part was the fact
that Jim died a short time later , And that's when she realized how
much precious time she wasted.
Why have you stopped living
because you been Hurt?
Have a beautiful day

Pramod Bhalerao

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on aporch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we loseit, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but ittakes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,even that fades away. Go for someone who makes yousmile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that ithurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wrecka life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends witha tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying. 

Pramod Bhalerao


Sit quietly for a moment

1. Sit quietly for a moment, and you realize how you have been foolishly running about. 
2. Learn to keep your mouth shut, and you realize you have been talking too much.
3. Avoid getting involved in too many things, and you realize that you have been wasting your time in unnecessary things. 
4. Close the door, and you realize that you have been mixed up with too many kinds of people. 
5. Have few desires, and you realize why you have had so many ills. 
6. Be human, and you realize that you have been too critical of others. 

Pramod Bhalerao


A Millionaire n Three Beggers ( Mind Blowing Story )

There was a good-natured millionaire in the town. Three beggars thought of approaching him for help. The first man went to the millionaire and said: "O Lord! I want five rupees. Please give me." The millionaire was taken aback at this man's impudence. "What! You demand five rupees from me as though I owe you the money! How dare you? How can I afford to give five rupees to a single beggar? Here, take these two rupees and get away," he said. The man went away with the two rupees.

The next beggar went to the millionaire and said: "Oh Lord! I have not taken a square meal for the past ten days. Please help me."
"How much do you want?" asked the millionaire.

"Whatever you give me, Maharaj," replied the beggar.
"Here, take this ten rupee note. You can have nice food for at least three days." The beggar walked away with the ten rupee note.

The third beggar came. "Oh Lord, I have heard about your noble qualities. Therefore, I have come to see you. Men of such charitable disposition are verily the manifestations of God on earth," he said.

"Please sit down," said the millionaire. "You appear to be tired. Please take this food," he said, and offered food to the beggar.
"Now please tell me what I can do for you."

"Oh Lord," replied the beggar; "I merely came to meet such a  noble personage that you are. You have given me this rich food already. What more need I get from you? You have already shown extraordinary kindness towards me. May God bless you!"

But the millionaire, struck by the beggar's spirit, begged of the beggar to remain with him, built a decent house for him in his own compound, and looked after him for the rest of his life.

God is like this good millionaire. Three classes of people approach Him, with three different desires and prayers. There is the greedy man full of vanity, full of arrogance, full of desires. He demands the objects of worldly enjoyment from God. Since this man, whatever be his vile desires, has had the good sense to approach God, He grants him some part of the desired objects (even these very soon pass away, just as the two rupees the first beggar got are spent before nightfall).

The other type of devotee prays to the Lord for relief from the sufferings of the world, but is better than the first one, in as much as he is ready to abide by His Will. To him the Lord grants full relief from suffering, and bestows on him much wealth and property.

The third type  he merely prays to the Lord: "O Lord, Thou art Existence-Absolute, Knowledge-Absolute, Bliss-Absolute, etc., etc." What does he want? Nothing. But the Lord is highly pleased with his spirit ofrenunciation, of desirelessness and of self-surrender. Therefore, He makes him eat His own food, i.e., He grants this man Supreme Devotion to Himself. Over and above this, He makes the devotee to live in His own House For ever afterwards this devotee dwells in the Lord's Abode as a Liberated Sage

Pramod Bhalerao


Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is bliss, taste it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.

Pramod Bhalerao

I don't know

I don't know how to tell you
I don't know if you care
I want to say I like you
But I don't even dare

It's true you may not like me
But I can't help the way I feel
I don't know why I feel this way
But I know this feeling is real

You don't know how hard it is
To see you but cannot to care
There's nothing else that I can do
But just to secretly stare

Sometimes I just want to cry
And wash this feeling away
If only it were that easy
I wouldn't be feeling this today... 

Pramod Bhalerao


Engineers are the BEST ...........

Engineers are the BEST boyfriends
ALL these ARE facts .. so.. here goes..

Advantage 1: Secure lifestyle.
An engineer boyfriend can provide you with a secure lifestyle. At 27 years old, an engineer probably has a respectable, stable job that gives him a high income to own a car, invest, have a comfortable life, and get married and buy a house too.
Law graduates are still working as a lowly apprentice in a law firm, most management graduates have just failed on their first business plan, the arts graduate is still looking for a job, and the medical school graduate is still living in a hospital. ''-

Advantage 2: Unmatchable industriousness.
An engineer boyfriend will dedicate an unimaginable amount of his time and effort to understand you. Engineers strain really really hard to understand their work. You can believe that they will try really really hard to understand women too, just like how they understand their work, once they believe that you are the one. So even if they don't understand you initially, they will keep on trying. Even if they still do not understand, they will figure out the correct method to keep you happy (e.g. buy diamond ring = 1 week's worth of happiness=dh/dt.) And once they find out the secret formula, they will just keep on repeating it so that the desired results appear.
Unlike the Lawyer who will argue with you, the Management graduate who will try to control your spending, the Arts graduate who will 'change major', and the medical school graduate who will operate on you. And you know what, it's really so easy to make engineers believe that you are the 'one'. Say that you like one of their projects and they will be hooked to you forever.-

Advantage 3: An engineer boyfriend will never betray your trust.
Let me first tell you what is wrong with the rest of the others - the lawyers will lie about everything, management graduates will cheat your money, the arts graduate will flirt, and you probably just look like another cadaver to the medical school graduate.
Your engineer boyfriend is either too busy to have an affair, and even if he does, he is too dumb to lie to you about that.


Hence, an engineer is the most secure boyfriend that you will ever find - rich enough, will keep on trying to understand and please you, has no time for affairs, and too dumb to lie to you. So girls, why procrastinate? Get an engineer as your boyfriend! 

Pramod Bhalerao



When all about you is black with gloom,
And all you feel is pending doom.
When your bones are racked with grim despair -
When every breath is a gasp for air.
Keep on going, though you need to grope,
For around the bend is a ray of hope.
A ray of hope is perhaps all that's left,
As your will to live have been bereft.
You've lost it all, it's just no use!
You can end it all, you need no excuse.
But throw away that piece of rope,
And give yourself a chance of hope.
Just give yourself another day,
Brushing aside what your thoughts may say.
This is your life and you can make a new start,
By ignoring the brain - just follow the heart.
Taking baby steps in order to cope,
And minute by minute you'll build on your hope.
Build on your hope, one day at a time,
Though the road is steep and hard to climb.
The hurts of the past - they should be dead.
The fears of the future are all in your head.
Just live in the present and refuse to mope
Your life will sparkle for you're living in hope.!!!!


Keep Your Hopes Alive!!

Pramod Bhalerao


Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving.

''Letting go doesn't mean we don't care.  Letting go doesn't mean we shut down.  Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave.  It means we give up resistance to the way things are, for the moment.  It means we stop trying to do the impossible--controlling that which we cannot--and instead, focus on what is possible--which usually means taking care of ourselves.  And we do this in gentleness, kindness, and love, as much as possible.     ''    -Melody Beattie
To let go isn't to forget, not to think about, or ignore.  It doesn't leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. 
Letting go isn't about winning or losing.  It's not about pride and it's not about how you appear, and it's not obsessing or dwelling on the past. 
Letting go isn't blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and it doesn't leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness.  It's not about giving in or giving up. 
Letting go isn't about loss and it's not about defeat.  To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on.  It is having an open mind and confidence in the future. 
Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing.  To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow.  It's about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain.
  Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving.  Letting go is growing up.  It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. 

To let go is to open a door, and to clear a path and set yourself free.       

Pramod Bhalerao


Be Happy with what you have

Think of others rather than yourself – when you do things, even the smallest favors, for other people who mean something to you, you feel good about yourself.
 Be proactive rather than reactive – instead of fretting over a problem and letting it stress you out, focus on how to resolve quickly and effectively. When your mind is busy trying to find a solution, you stop feeling sorry for yourself and start thinking positively.
Count your blessings at the end of every day – don’t focus on the problems you’ve faced that day; rather, think of all the good things that happened and the happiness they gave you.
Don’t allow your mind to remain idle – it may be clich├ęd, but it’s also true that an idle mind is the devil’s workshop. So stay busy and keep doing something or the other to prevent negative thoughts from creeping in.
 Stop negative thoughts before they form completely – if you find yourself becoming depressed because your mind is taking a negative bent, stop those thoughts in their tracks and start consciously thinking of positive things.
 Spend time with people who love you and make you feel good about yourself – quality relationships make life worth living.
 Anytime you feel that the weight of your burden is hard to bear, talk to a friend or someone with a sympathetic ear – even if they cannot do anything to help you out, just the fact that you have someone on your side is uplifting enough.
 And finally, look around you before you start to feel sorry for yourself – there are people in situations that are a hundred times worse than yours, yet they manage to get through each day.

Pramod Bhalerao


People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON . . .Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Pramod Bhalerao


Love is a gift

 The world is full of beauty when your heart is full of love.So start and end your day with love and smile in your heart. It’s not the presence of someone that bring meaning to life, but the way someone Touches your Heart gives life a Beautiful Meaning....
The fastest way to lose love is to hold on too tight, the best way to keep love is to give it -- WINGS!
We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.
Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to that as you would your life, for without them life is meaningless. Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find.The quickest way to receive love is to give love...
''Love is a gift. If you receive it, open and appreciate it. If not, do not worry. Someone somewhere is still wrapping it for you''~Anonymous
''This is the miracle that happens every time to those who really love:
the more they give, the more they possess.

Pramod Bhalerao


It is our mind that creates the kind of life we live.

People often wonder how to be positive in their thoughts and actions, especially when they are unhappy and unsatisfied, or when life is difficult and tough. They even find it hard to be positive when things go well. Most of them don't know how to be positive and what they need to do. Like every other subject, the know-how of how to be positive can be learned and the skill developed. It is all a matter of attitude and thinking, both of which can be changed.
If we keeping thinking the same thoughts, they will eventually tend to manifest in our world. This means that if we desire good results we have to be careful of what we think. We have to stay and think positive.
Begin by becoming aware of your thoughts, and exchanging your negative thoughts with positive ones. Substitute negativity for being positive, thoughts about poverty with thoughts about wealth, ignorance with understanding, disharmony with harmony and lack of freedom with freedom. Start saying, "I can", "I am able" and "it is possible".
It is our mind that creates the kind of life we live. If we think positively we will transform our life accordingly. Everything starts from within, from the most simple action to the greatest achievement. We cannot always have control over our external circumstances, but we can control our inner world of thoughts, where everything starts. We can't always control our outer universe, but we can, with some effort, control our inner universe.
You are unhappy and negative because of how you think, but you can change the way you think. With a little work and effort you can change how you think, and this will you automatically change your attitude, expectations, actions and reactions, which will lead to more motivation, happiness and improved life.
We get what we expect to get, therefore, begin right now to expect the very best of everything that this world has to offer - and wish the same for everyone else. There is plenty of everything in the Universe for everyone, and the Universe can create more of the good things for everyone. Don't think lack, think abundance, for you and for everyone

Pramod Bhalerao


"Think it Over"

Today we have higher buildings and wider highways
But shorter temperaments and narrower points of view.
 We spend more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses, but smaller families.
We have more compromises, but less time.
We have more knowledge, but less judgment.
We have more medicines, but less health.
 We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk much, we love only a little, and we hate too much.
 We reached the Moon and came back, but 
we find it troublesome to cross our own street and meet our neighbors.
We have conquered the outer space, but not our inner space.
 We have higher income, but fewer morals
These are times with more liberty, but less joy.
We have much more food, but less nutrition.
 These are the days, in which it takes two incomes for each home, 
but divorces increase.
These are times of finer houses, but more broken homes.
 You do not keep anything for a special occasion, because
everyday that you live is a SPECIAL OCCASION.
 Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your front porch
and admire the view without paying attention to your needs.
 Spend more time with your family and friends,
eat your favorite foods,
visit the places you love.
 Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment;
Not only about survival.
Use your crystal goblets.
Do not save your best perfume,
And use it every time you feel you want it.
 Remove from your vocabulary phrases like "one of these day"
And "someday".
Let's write that letter we thought of writing "one of these days".
 Let's tell our families and friends how much we love them.
Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life.
Every day, every hour and every minute is special.
 And you don't know if it will be your last.
If you're too busy to take the time to send this message to
someone you love and you tell yourself you will send it "one of these days".
 Just think .......... "One of these days" 

Pramod Bhalerao


If you believe...

If you believe you can, you will.
If you believe you can't, you won't.
If you believe you are not lovable, you won't be.
If you believe you are not smart enough, you won't be.
If you believe you will die from your disease, you will.
If you believe you are not good enough, you never will be.
If you believe other people are against you, they will be.
If you believe money is more powerful than you are, it will be.
If you believe you have no influence over other people, you won't
If you believe other people are more powerful than you, they will be.

Whatever you believe is what becomes your REALITY.
''It is much easier to believe that it's snowing, than to experience the snow. If you just believe, you can stay inside, stay warm and avoid the cold. That's why people are led up the garden path by others beliefs. It's easier and warmer. And all this 'believing stuff' starts in kindergarten. In the context of your spiritual or personal growth, believe nothing, experiment and test everything, in the laboratory of your own experience. Only then will you be able to separate truth from falsehood, reality from illusion, and lead others with integrity. Challenge and check at least one belief everyday. And if it's found wanting, chuck it or change it. Challenge, check, then chuck or change, now that's a master at work.''

Pramod Bhalerao


Beginning today. And every day.

''Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today.''  Benjamin Franklin

Beginning today I will look in the mirror and I will see a person worthy
of my respect and admiration.
This capable person looking back at me is someone I enjoy spending time
with and someone I would like to get to know better.

Beginning today I will cherish each moment of my life.
I value this gift bestowed upon me in this world and I will unselfishly
share this gift with others.
I will use this gift to enhance the lives of others.

Beginning today I will take a moment to step off the beaten path and to
revel in the mysteries I encounter.
I will face challenges with courage and determination.
I will overcome what barriers there may be which hinder my quest for
growth and self-improvement.

Beginning today I will take life one day at a time, one step at a time.
Discouragement will not be allowed to taint my positive self-image,
my desire to succeed or my capacity to love.

Beginning today I walk with renewed faith in human kindness.
Regardless of what has gone before, I believe there is hope
for a brighter and better future.

Beginning today I will open my mind and my heart.
I will welcome new experiences. I will meet new people.
I will not expect perfection from myself nor anyone else: perfection does not exist in an imperfect world.
But I will applaud the attempt to overcome human foibles.

Beginning today I am responsible for my own happiness and I will do
things that make me happy . . .
admire the beautiful wonders of nature, listen to my favorite music,
pet a kitten or a puppy, soak in a bubble bath . . .
pleasure can be found in the most simple of gestures.

Beginning today I will learn something new; I will try something
different; I will savor all the various flavors life has to offer.
I will change what I can and the rest I will let go.
I will strive to become the best me I can possibly be.

Pramod Bhalerao


No one is mine

No one is mine
May b I'm not fine.

No one cares 4 me,

No one has tears 4 me.....

No one believes me,

every one says leave me.

If i ever cry

No one will even ask why?

And if i even die

No one will cry.

No one says take care.

Everyone says i don't care.

When i need someone 4 myself

I find no one 4 my help.

I don't know why

May b talking to me they feel shy.

No one is mine.

May b i m not fine.

Pramod Bhalerao



Never date a woman whose father calls her 'Princess.' Chances are she believes it.
It is not against the law to be stupid, but it is stupid to be against the law.
Middle age is when you have a choice of two temptations and choose the one that will get you home earlier.
If you believe that dreams can come true, be prepared for the occasional nightmare too.
Many people spend their health for wealth, and then try to spend their wealth for health.
Needing someone is like needing a parachute. If he isn't there the first time, chances are you won't be needing him again.
A pessimist is one who feels bad when he feels good for fear he'll feel worse when he feels better.
Some women blush when they are kissed, some call for the police, some swear, some bite. But the worst are those who laugh.
Everyone is a damn fool for at least five minutes a day; wisdom consists of not exceeding the limit.
It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
One thing a man learns from an argument with a woman is how to be a good loser.
Only a lack of imagination saves me from immobilizing myself with imaginary fears.
Noise pollution is a relative thing. In a city, it's a jet plane taking off. In a monastery, it's a pen that scratches.
Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom.
A bore is someone who persists in holding his own views after we have enlightened him with ours.
If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.
You're getting old when you enjoy remembering things more than doing them.
People who think they're out of this world always make you wish they were.
Organized people are just to lazy to look for things.
Vital papers will demonstrate their vitality by moving from where you left them to where you can't find them.
Those are my principles. If you don't like them I have others.
A politician is someone who makes no sense in a very convincing manner.
The weaker sex is the stronger because of the weakness of the stronger sex for the weaker sex.
First you forget names, then you forget faces. Next you forget to pull your zipper up and finally, you forget to pull it down.
Early to bed, early to rise, your girl goes out with other guys.
It doesn't matter how often a married man changes his job, he still ends up with the same boss.
Everyone should have a spouse, because there are a number of things that go wrong that one can't blame on the government.
Never explain. Friends don't need it, enemies wouldn't believe it.
I was going to procrastinate today, but I think I'll leave that until tomorrow.
A child becomes an adult when he realizes that he has a right not only to be right but also to be wrong.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
Atheism is a non-prophet organization.
The cigarette does the smoking you're just the sucker.
Real friends are the ones who survive transitions between address books.
A friend is someone with whom we share common enemies.
Crime has already been organised. Now it's up to the police.
Make love, not war. Hell, do both get married!
He who can- does, he who cannot- teaches.
When a girl goes wrong, men go right after her.
I like work; it fascinates me. I can sit and look at it for hours.
Everyone makes mistakes. The trick is to make them when nobody is looking.
The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.
Every man should marry. Happiness isn't everything.
Saving is a fine thing. Especially when your parents have done it for you. 

Pramod Bhalerao