There are several ways to break a heart, but
to mend a broken heart is another thing to consider. Being the person
who broke somebody Else's heart is simple compared to the person
experiencing heartache. Rejection is not always easy, especially if your
in a relationship for a long time and suddenly the person you fell in
love with sees you differently or isn't as in love with you as before.
Without jesting, this can actually lead to death especially if the
person will not move on.
Moving on is a complicated process.
Leaving all things that you have become familiar with- constant wake up
calls, sweet nothings even the petty fights- will be terribly missed. It
would be tough but you have to try. There are several ways on healing a
broken heart, some would avoid the pain and refrain from going to
places or looking at things that reminds them of the person. Throw
everything that was given to them or erase the number on their
mobile phone though erasing the number won't work since you know it by
heart. Others would be the opposite, they would embrace the pain
remember everything, until the pain would be tolerable. The second
option is pretty bold, that it normally happens after you tried to
forget everything.
Everyone has their own choices but one factor
that can make the healing easier is the manner on how the break up was
done. It might be out of our hands on how the second party broke up with
you, but it is one aspect to consider.. When there is a proper closure
or the person explained all the necessary "whys", it would be easier to
accept. But if the person just left you without explanation, you'd be
left wondering and anger would fill you.
Some would say that
proper closure takes time to heal as well, for the reason that all that
was left are good memories and the other party still wants friendship
which would makes a person hope when there is nothing
left to hope for. While if anger fills you then you wouldn't want to
have any connection which would make it easier, but then again people
has different ways on handling emotional problems so in the end it would
still be your choice. Since loving someone can lead to a great deal of
pain, it would be smart to have some precautions.
First would be
to love yourself more and not giving a hundred percent of attention to
your partner, hence when a break up happens you would still have
strength to move on because your life did not revolve around your
partner so much. Second is have time for friends, don't leave your
friends out of your relationship, because before your partner appears
they are already there, your first relationship and they would also be
the one to help you if things go differently. Finally you need to trust
the One above that everything is within reason and if you move on with
your life you'll understand why.
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