One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley.
A large crowd gathered and they all
admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in
it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had
ever seen.
The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said, “Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine.”
The crowd and the young man looked at the
old man’s heart. It was beating strongly ... but full of scars. It had
places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in ... but
they didn’t fit quite right and there were several jagged edges.
In fact, in some places there were deep
gouges where whole pieces were missing. The people starred ... how could
he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought?
The young man looked at the old man’s heart and saw its state and laughed.
“You must be joking,” he said. “Compare your heart with mine ... mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears.”
“Yes,” said the old man, “Yours is
perfect looking ... but I would never trade with you. You see, every
scar represents a person to whom I have given my love..... I tear out a
piece of my heart and
give it to them ... and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart ... but because the pieces aren’t exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared.
Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart
away ... and the other person hasn’t returned a piece of his heart to
me. These are the empty gouges ... giving love is taking a chance.
Although these
gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too ... and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?”
The young man stood silently with tears
running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his
perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it
to the old man with trembling hands.
The old man took his offering, placed it
in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed
it in the wound in the young man’s heart. It fit.... but not perfectly,
as there were
some jagged edges.
The young man looked at his heart, not
perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old
man’s heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side by side.
Physical perfection is not always beautiful.
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Remember To Remember is a documentation of everything that inspires me and makes me fall in love with the world a little more.